At the age of 18, graduation,at the age of 23, marriage, at the age of 25, children.....these are the expectations which we Indians have .We want to live in a predefined structure,all set.
But is it really important to follow these old fashioned trends? Is it really important to bound your life around of these things and not try for something different.
Why don't we put our all energies in our career/relationships and most important for our individual improvements.
Something for our society, have you ever thought about to adopt a children? Have you ever thought about politics, to do something for NGOs. for our country, our villages,city or street.
Yes, we think a lot.Many people want to do something different but they don't able to accept or take any risk.
We are not happy because of the expectations. Expectations of the society.
Why don't we try to break these traditions? After-all, we are the human beings. It's our right to live our life according to us. And have anybody got any benefits after following these traditions?
Have you ever gone alone on a trip?
Have you ever tried to teach a poor child?
Have you ever take risk in your life?
Have you ever help someone without any expectations?
Have you ever do anything for your society?
Is it really important to do marriage just for marriage?
How can you decide your life time decision in only 1 meeting with someone good looking or a rich person?
And if you are following these trends and still unhappy then ask yourself just a question,"why?"
Take a breathe and live your life without following blind traditions.
Give time to your family but not expectations,they love you and will understand your situation.
Communicate with them, make new friends, don't be afraid for a lonely trip.
Give time to new things, at-least try, may be it'll give a new direction to your life.
For example :- I always want to write something but never start.People criticize me for my English grammar and ascent but it never discourage me. Nobody is perfect , neither I am . But I start writing and I know one day, I'll be the best in this language. And trust me its like meditation to do what you want.
I really enjoy while writing and i love to share my thoughts and experiences.May be it'll help somebody..
I have bunny teeth but I never stop smiling.
I am Specie but I love my eyes.
I have short height(according to society) but I enjoy heels.
I have bad communication skills (according to society) but I am working in a MNC as a Software Engineer.
People have always something for me , they always try to say that I am not perfect not a slim trim but Its never affects me.
Neither for you guys, imperfection is an attractive thing ,at least people notice you.
So enjoy your imperfection and do whatever you want to do.....:)
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But is it really important to follow these old fashioned trends? Is it really important to bound your life around of these things and not try for something different.
Why don't we put our all energies in our career/relationships and most important for our individual improvements.
Something for our society, have you ever thought about to adopt a children? Have you ever thought about politics, to do something for NGOs. for our country, our villages,city or street.
Yes, we think a lot.Many people want to do something different but they don't able to accept or take any risk.
We are not happy because of the expectations. Expectations of the society.
Why don't we try to break these traditions? After-all, we are the human beings. It's our right to live our life according to us. And have anybody got any benefits after following these traditions?
Have you ever gone alone on a trip?
Have you ever tried to teach a poor child?
Have you ever take risk in your life?
Have you ever help someone without any expectations?
Have you ever do anything for your society?
Is it really important to do marriage just for marriage?
How can you decide your life time decision in only 1 meeting with someone good looking or a rich person?
And if you are following these trends and still unhappy then ask yourself just a question,"why?"
Take a breathe and live your life without following blind traditions.
Give time to your family but not expectations,they love you and will understand your situation.
Communicate with them, make new friends, don't be afraid for a lonely trip.
Give time to new things, at-least try, may be it'll give a new direction to your life.
For example :- I always want to write something but never start.People criticize me for my English grammar and ascent but it never discourage me. Nobody is perfect , neither I am . But I start writing and I know one day, I'll be the best in this language. And trust me its like meditation to do what you want.
I really enjoy while writing and i love to share my thoughts and experiences.May be it'll help somebody..
I have bunny teeth but I never stop smiling.
I am Specie but I love my eyes.
I have short height(according to society) but I enjoy heels.
I have bad communication skills (according to society) but I am working in a MNC as a Software Engineer.
People have always something for me , they always try to say that I am not perfect not a slim trim but Its never affects me.
Neither for you guys, imperfection is an attractive thing ,at least people notice you.
So enjoy your imperfection and do whatever you want to do.....:)
gaurav..???
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